- Enoch Oyedibu
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Are relationships between older women and younger men doomed? Or can they work? Questions like these, among others often beg for an answer. But it is not always so, for men who often opt for very younger women than their ages. Though, society calls some pedophiles, many are getting away with it and it is far becoming norms as far as they didn’t engage in immoral things. So, why should older women not replicate this?
It should not be possible to find love or companionship at any age. Long-term success in a relationship between an older woman and a younger man is entirely possible as long as they are both dedicated and willing to put in the necessary effort.
Relationships between older women and younger men are becoming more common, particularly on social media, which has altered public perceptions and reduced stigma associated with this age difference. Relationship dynamics between older men and younger women are comparable to those in more prevalent and less scrutinised relationships.
Why some older women like younger men
Younger men who are in prime physical condition and a good fit for an active lifestyle can attract older women.
Women who have managed to maintain their fitness and health may wish to date a man who appears to be ten years younger than they are.
An older woman may feel more equipped to handle the ups and downs of a relationship due to her greater relationship experience, particularly if she has been able to turn her fears into opportunities for growth for both herself and her younger partner.
It is possible that she believes she can shape him into the ideal partner and lead the perfect sex life because she has more sex experience.
Women typically find dating more challenging as they get older. The reason why most men their age are married, in relationships, or not interested in dating is the reason why many older women date younger guys.
As compared to their younger male partners, older women frequently have more financial security and independence. There may be an exciting thrill of taking the lead and being able to control financial matters, such as buying her younger lover gifts, taking him out on dates, and even taking him shopping.
Younger men in their 20s tend to be more carefree and impulsive because they do not have as many worries.
Since it boosts her ego and self-esteem, an older woman might look forward to dating a younger man. Perhaps the young man satisfies an older woman’s need for nurturing.
Why some younger men like older women?
Given their experience and ability to handle challenging circumstances, younger men might believe that older women have a wealth of knowledge to impart.
Beyond merely wanting to start a family, older women typically exhibit greater self-assurance and confidence. For ambitious young men looking to further their intellectual horizons, this might be especially appealing.
The diligence, commitment, and perseverance that an older woman has shown to advance in her field or career are frequently respected and idolised by young men.
It is possible that younger men want to portray themselves as the hero—someone that their partners actually need and want to be around.
Getting an older woman’s attention can help someone feel more confident and good about themselves.
A mother figure or other parental figure in their lives may be something they unconsciously long for.
When the relationship can work
Relationships between older women and younger men are not exempt from difficulties; these relationships are like any other. Sometimes it can be too much to handle the mindset, goals, experience, and other differences that come with May-December romances, both in the bedroom and in day-to-day living.
But people do not fall in love with people because of their age. Relationships can succeed as long as they are motivated by love and the correct things.
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Enoch Oyedibu
I am a writer and investigative journalist who specialises in literary criticism and underrepresented narratives. Among other publications, I have been featured in Business Day Nigeria, TheICIR, Platform Times and Daily Nigerian. Right now, I work as a full-time staff writer for Unconventional Magazine.
