Orgasm Makes Her Plead for More: See 8 Ways to Achieve it in Bed

Catherine Maborukoje
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Paying attention to her pleasure during foreplay sets the stage for a more satisfying experience.

Sex is sweet. For women, to make it more pleasurable, an orgasm — an intense physical and emotional climax during sexual arousal— must be reached. But most men, who believe deep penetration is the only way to make sex pleasurable for women, don’t know this. Bigger penises and hard sex are not good ways to make a woman cum.

Over time, it has been well-discussed that an orgasm can never be reached through deep penetration. Men who penetrate and don’t do other things that matter, suffer women and make sex enjoyable to only them. This is considered an offside as sex is meant to be mutual and enjoyable for both parties.

So what is an orgasm and how can a man make a woman reach one? According to Naura Hayden’s book — “How to Satisfy a Woman Every Time and Have Her Beg for More”, Hayden notes in an eye-opening exposé that the ultimate method of satisfying a woman in bed is in spending quality time during foreplay.

Foreplay includes romance, kissing, and fondling of sensitive parts of partners. However, some men who do foreplay only spend about two minutes or less. This is far beyond the estimated time women need to be in the mood than men, before a heated activity of intercourse. And the mood can only come when foreplay is well done.

Meanwhile, as pleasurable as an orgasm is, the lack of good foreplay will never make a woman reach orgasm. To make a woman orgasm, there are several key strategies and techniques a partner can indulge in. Following are the Unconventional ways of making her beg for more as Hayden has said.

1. Set the Mood

Creating a comfortable and intimate environment is important. Show her affection, be attentive, and focus on her pleasure. Lowering the lights, caressing her lovingly, and expressing desires that can enhance the experience.

2. Variety in Stimulation

Explore different ways to stimulate her, including finger/hand play, penetration, and oral sex. Each woman may have different preferences, so being versatile while approaching her can increase the chances of her reaching orgasm.

3. Experiment with Toys

Incorporating sex toys can add excitement and variety to intimate moments. From vibrators to other stimulating devices, toys can help enhance pleasure and lead to more intense orgasms. But if there is no toy, fingers will do the magic by making sure they are well used to tease her clit.

4. Try New Positions

Changing positions during sex can provide different types of stimulation. Letting her choose the position or trying ones that offer better G-spot or clitoral stimulation can increase the possibility of her reaching orgasm.

5. Emotional Connection

Building a strong emotional connection with one’s partner can significantly impact her ability to orgasm. Women in committed relationships tend to reach orgasm more frequently, highlighting the importance of comfort and connection.

6. Be Open and Vulnerable

Being open about one’s desires and vulnerabilities can create a safe space for both partners to express their needs. Encouraging open communication can lead to a more fulfilling sexual experience.

7. Incorporate Sensory Play

Experiment with sensory play like using blindfolds or exploring different locations for intimacy. Adding elements of surprise and novelty can heighten arousal and lead to more intense orgasms.

8. Focus on Foreplay

If there is anything greater and super thrilling to make a woman reach an orgasm, it is foreplay. Sex is not to be done in a rush. Men should endeavor to make out with their women and spend quality time, appropriately about 30 minutes to one hour. As a man, don’t just jump into lovemaking, spending time on foreplay, including kissing, caressing, and oral sex, can help build arousal and increase the chances of her reaching orgasm. Paying attention to her pleasure during foreplay sets the stage for a more satisfying experience. Above all, focus on playing with the clitoris.